Having had brothers and male room-mates and now Darling Husband, I’ve learned a couple of things:
-Patience. Like w/ learning to live w/ roommates, there is an adjustment period. Just speak up
-Finances. Discuss how bills will be paid and how to save. Work on a monthly budget so there’s not too many surprises. Although we are married we still have our original accounts but one account is used for paying all household bills while the other is for savings.
-Split chores. Many of my gf think its odd but Darling Husband washes clothes and dishes while I handle all other cleaning/cooking/grocery shopping/etc(Type A, I am). Although I’m a nut about how my clothes are handled, he just has more time to do them and after a month of training, they come out just as clean as if I did them myself.
-Have more than one hamper. We literally have 3 hampers in the house cause Darling Husband will take of his clothes throughout the house. Plus a hamper is easy to move into a room when a guest is over.
-Give him his own closet if you can. Seriously. He’ll look @ all your clothes/shoes and wonder why you have so much.
-If you can, have separate Bathrooms. My married Girlfriend suggested that from day one cause tooth past all over the sink, just wasn’t how I wanted to wake up everyday. If you can’t, buy some Clorox wipes so they can be used.
-Separate tvs and DVDR. Not everyone can do this but we have separate tvs/dvdrs. Yes, cause he thinks my BBC mini-series are rubbish and I don’t want to watch every episode of Batman on my free time. Plus the PS3 is hooked up to the main tv so he can play his video games all day and night if he wants.
-Bedroom Etiquette. Ok, this may not be an issue for you but we discovered that since I tended to go to the potty more, it was wise for me to sleep closer to the door. I always woke him up. Since Darling Husband goes to work 2hrs before me, he now closes the door so I won’t have the hall light shining brightly in my face.(He lived by hisself for a really long time). Also since I’m always cold cause we have to have the windows and the fan on, I have extra twin size blankets for me.
-Last but not least, Have fun and enjoy your Fiance. I found it helped us ease into martial life soo much easier.