(Closed) FI not excited about the wedding…

posted 5 years ago in May 2013
Post # 4
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3763 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sounds like he is nervous about being the center of attention. I bet once he sees all of his friends and family there supporting you guys and having fun, he will change his tune. I’m sorry he is saying he is not excited ๐Ÿ™ It’s a good sign he is more excited about the marriage than the wedding, though! That’s the really important thing!

Post # 5
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9082 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

At the end of the day, he wants to marry you. He could probably care less about a reception.

Post # 6
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1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@occhimusicali:  He was following the happy wife, happy life rule ๐Ÿ™‚ He wanted to do what he thought you wanted to make you happy. It’s sweet, but he ends up compromising what he wants. He asked you to marry him, so of course he’s excited to be married to you and that’s the most important part. A lot of guys probably aren’t all that overjoyed about the actual wedding part…it can cause a lot of anxiety! I’m sure once the day arrives, he will be fine.

But make sure to tell him in the future you want to know how he really feels right away! We actually booked a wedding locally and paid a deposit. Fiance told me he wished we had just eloped. I cancelled the wedding and we are having a 2 week weddingmoon. I didn’t care what we did either way (it’s him who wants the wedding) and I sure didn’t want him doing something as important as a wedding just because he thought that’s what I wanted.

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