(Closed) FI Not helping at all vent

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ugh I’m sorry, that’s annoying. Fiance said he’d have the ceremony finished by tonight, and he hasn’t even worked on it this week. Maybe don’t lean so heavily on him since he’s expressed an interest in not working on wedding projects. Could you DIY less?

Post # 4
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746 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That sucks. My Fiance was the same way in the beginning of our engagement — but to be fair, I didn’t really ask him for help, I just expected him to take initiative, like I was. What has worked for us is having wedding planning dates, if you will. We’ll set a specific time (and amount of time) that we’re going to do wedding stuff, and we do it at the same time. A few days ago, I was writing checks to the photographer and the bakery while he was booking our hotel room. This system is really working for us! Good luck!

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