(Closed) FI not pulling his weight with wedding plans? Normal?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: How much does your FI help with wedding planning?

    I can't make a decision without him, we are both equally involved

    He takes control mostly

    I take control mostly

    I do everything on my own

    He does the typically 'groom' jobs like honeymoon, music etc


  • Post # 62
    581 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I do everything. My fiance is just not detail oriented and doesn’t really care what happens on the wedding day as long as I’m happy and we end up married. 🙂 And yes that’s how our marriage is going to be. He’s going to work hard and take care of me and I’m going to work hard and take care of him, and we’ll bring our different strengths to the table. 


    Post # 63
    190 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    My fiance keeps telling me WYW…..Whatever You Want. He has been a great help to start and was happy that I delegated the Hotel, transportation, liquor and honeymoon to him.  However, he needs constant reminders to work on those things., especially getting his friends addresses (driving me nuts).  Pretty much most of the details are all up to me and it probably should be that way since his ideas are not realistic for a wedding. I just can’t wait to hear “good call hiney” after the wedding to the many details and ideas I decided to go with 🙂

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