Post # 1
Fiance was looking in my camera at pictures of my little sister’s 8th grade Graduation on yesterday. I totally forgot that the pictures of me in my dress were right before those. He looked up and handed me the camera saying, “There are ‘other’ pictures in there.” I bucked my eyes and snatched the camera. I already knew what he meant. He said that he only saw the first one of the back of the dress (pic below).
I am so bummed and devastated. He told me not to worry about it, but I am. I have been trying so hard to keep him away from seeing my dress. We’re not doing a first look or anything. I feel like I messed everything up now. Sigh….
Post # 3
Honestly, I wouldn’t worry about it. He will probably forget about how it looked by the time you get married, plus you will be all made up on the wedding day so it will look completely different.
Post # 4
it’ll be ok honey if thats all he saw its no big deal. I know what you mean thou mine is at my house until sat (taking it for my first fitting) and i think he has snuck a peek (?) but its totally dif that day bc you will be all done up and whatever pictures he did see will be completely out of his head 🙂
Post # 5
UGHHHHH This happened to me as well 🙁 Doesn’t that make you feel completely sick to your stomach, It did to me 🙁 On the bright side, all he seen was the top of the back. It’s not like he got the complete visual. There is still a lot left to the imagination. I wouldn’t worry about that much. But I do understand how you feel. Silly Boys!!!
Post # 6
Thanks ladies….I sure hope that he does forget!
yes, Linds, my heart totally sank!
Post # 7
Yea I agree don’t worry, he only seen the back anyway and you will look totally different on your big day!!
Post # 8
Don’t worry! He only saw the back and briefly at that. And not to over-generalize, but men have the short-term memory of a gnat. He won’t even remember what he’s seen. You will stock wow him on your wedding day!
Post # 9
Honestly, guys are guys, and I guarantee you he’ll forget what it looks like by October. Not to mention, he didn’t see you from the front, with your veil and other wedding day attire, so I wouldn’t worry about it at all!
Post # 10
Don’t worry! This happened to me, and Fiance had absolutely no memory of the dress approximately two weeks later 🙂 Honestly, it will still be a beautiful surprise to him when you walk down the aisle!
Post # 11
I wouldn’t worry much, if he is anything like my Fiance he will never even remember. Also if he only saw the back then he didn’t get a whole visual of the dress. And even if he saw all of the pictures you are going to look completely different once your dress is altered, hair and makeup are done, and you have all of your accesories.
Post # 12
Try not to worry about it. He will probably forget what it looked like. And also, your dress will look different from the quick snapshot on your camera, when he sees you wearing it in person on your wedding day.
Post # 13
Thanks so much ladies…..I am feeling better now.
Post # 14
Oh well. He didn’t see the front!!! thanks goodness!
Post # 15
I wouldn’t worry too much. Plus, it was the back, not the front. My Fiance has seen the photo of the model in the magazine, but I showed it to him and didn’t really care though. Heck, I have the dress hanging from the doorway to the spare bedroom that is directly across from our bedroom and the bag is hanging open to let air circulate. The dress is only peeking out a little but I know he hasn’t looked. Besides, on me and on the hanger is totally different.
Try not to fret too much. He’ll still be blown away when he sees you the day of. 🙂
Post # 16
I don’t have any pictures of me in my dress in the house. There are a few of the dress – so he might have caught a glimpse, but will have NO idea how it looks on me!
I wouldn’t worry about it.. he hasn’t see the front & he probably won’t remember much about it come wedding time!