Post # 1

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Helper bee
So, a friend of mine wanted to see my dress, so I looked it up online and sent her the link. BUT I forgot to close out the screen. Fiance gets on the computer to check email and said, “Did I just see your dress?” I said, “Where, How?” and then I realized the webpage was still up. I said, “No, that’s not my dress. I was just looking at that one.” Then I changed the subject to something else that funny that we were talking about earlier and laughed about it to not let him see my real emotions, which were ANGER and FRUSTRATION (at myself, of course).
Does it matter that he saw it? I’m thinking that he didn’t see ME in the dress, just a pic of a model wearing it. HELP!!
Post # 3

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Bee Keeper
no, it does not matter because he didnt see YOU in the dress and when that happens, thats when it counts and there will be magic
its all good
Post # 4

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Busy bee
It doesn’t matter!! He probably will take your word for it that you were looking at some other dress and forget about it. All that matter is the day of the ceremony for hm when he sees you in it. You’ll look amazing and he’ll be like wow!
Post # 5

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Sugar bee
If he’s anything like my Fiance, he won’t even remember what it looks like. Plus, when he sees it on you, with your hair and makeup all done, it’ll be totally different. So don’t worry!
Post # 6

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Honey bee
He’s a guy so he won’t remember what it looked like. No need to stress at all. Not to mention, models are all airbrushed so how a dress looks on them is nowhere near related to what that same dress will look like on a real person, and no two people are built the same anyway.
Post # 7

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Bee Keeper
Aw don’t worry!
Most guys just see “pretty white dress” and won’t even know it is the same once he sees it on you. It sucks but you’ll look amazing in the dress and he’ll not even think back to that picture 🙂
Post # 8

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Busy bee
Guys usually forget these things, so I wouldn’t worry too much.
Post # 9

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Bumble bee
He will not remember what it looks like, much less what it looks like on you.
Post # 10

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Sugar Beekeeper
Wow… you are cool under pressure! Go you! 🙂 I really don’t think it matters. He won’t remember at all.
Post # 11

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Honey bee
- Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch
Mr. S saw mine, too, although he doesn’t know it! I don’t think it matters, though.
Post # 12

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Sugar bee
Id be upset if my husband had seen my dress before I got it (I hid it in a folder layers deep on my computer) but he wont remember it, especially since it was a picture of the model, not you, in the dress!
Post # 13

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Bumble bee
I’ve shown Fiance the pic of the dress, ain’t no shame in it. He’s not seen it on me. Models versus real life changes a dress. :o) Don’t worry!
Post # 14

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Busy bee
Do not worry about it! I had pictures of my dress all over the place and my Fiance probably still couldn’t describe it or pick it out if given 2 choices. Plus, if you look on the thread that shows real brides vs model pictures you can see that the dresses sometimes don’t even look the same when on a “real” person. They actually look a million times better!
Post # 15

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Busy bee
- Wedding: July 2010 - The Tower Club
I doubt he’ll remember. I remember in Father of the Bride, Steve Martin’s character looks at his wife and thinks, “I know I’ll never remember what she wore that night, but I knew she was beautiful” or something like that. I think this is how guys think of fashion. 🙂
Post # 16

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Busy bee
I did not let my husband see a picture of my dress, but if he had seen a picture of it, on the model, he definitely would not have remembered it! I don’t think you have anything to worry about!