Post # 1

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Bee Keeper
and he said “yeah taht looks ok”. that was over a month ago. i just asked him if he thought i looked pretty in my dress and he said he does not remember. i freaked out and he said that it was a bad picture! OMG i am freaking out!
this is so not like my Fiance because he always thinks i look beautiful in everything. so i must look awful! WHAT DO I DO?
Post # 3

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Bee Keeper
Um…he just said he couldn’t remember, right? By bad picture he probably meant to small for him to see, or trying to make an excuse for why he doesn’t remember. All he saw is probably the white. He’s a guy, I don’t think he meant to offend you. You’re fine! = D
Post # 4

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Bee Keeper
btw he did not ask to see the picture. i showed it to him. maybe a mistake…
Post # 5

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Honey Beekeeper
Honestly, he probably just doesn’t remember! Plus the effect is completely different from when you are trying on the dress (and probably looking overheated because those things are so hot) and being completely made up for the wedding. You will be completely beautiful on your wedding day. If you have doubts, you can always post pictures of yourself in the dress and we will tell you how beautiful it is!
Post # 6

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Bee Keeper
thanks ladies. your prob right….
Post # 7

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Helper bee
i showed a pic of me in my dress to my fiance and i doubt he can remember what i look like in it either! lol. i wouldn’t sweat it, men don’t care about that kind of thing anyway. besides, like missasb said, it’ll be completely different when he sees you in it on your wedding day. that’s why i didn’t care that my fiance saw mine already. i know he’ll be in shock still when he sees me all dressed up. 🙂
Post # 8

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Busy bee
I think that he’s just being a guy….I’m sure that he does not remember at all what you looked like in the picture (he probably said it was a bad pic, meaning that he couldn’t really tell what you looked like and he just saw a white dress). You will look amazing coming down the aisle and he won’t even remember that he saw the picture. I would be freaking out too, but no worries 🙂
Post # 9

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Honey bee
- Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas
I’m sure he just doesn’t remember. Guy’s don’t really pay attention to details, so I’m sure he quickly forgot exactly what it looked like!!!
Post # 10

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Bee Keeper
thanks ladies. i do want to clarify how wonderful my FH is. this post was not to dis him in any way. i love him so much and i know he loves the way i look. so naturally it really hurt when i felt that he said i looked ok and then he did not even remember. i am sure i am jsut reading too much into it.
honestly i am really emotional today…i ate a lot of M&Ms and am totally regreting it! ahahaha! 😀
thanks again ladies
Post # 11

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Sugar bee
He might also think he’s supposed to say he doesn’t remember…If you got upset about it when he saw the pic.
Post # 12

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Sugar bee
I honestly doubt he remembers! And I am SURE he will think you look beautiful on your wedding day!!