(Closed) FI started talking to ex behind my back……

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
1211 posts
Bumble bee

@smcs28:  Hahaha ya. The chick was asking my bf to buy her a drink (which in itself is laaaame, don’t be begging men for drinks) and he’s just like “I don’t think my gf would like that”. She looks over and sees where he’s pointing to me and rushes over to see if I’m really his girlfriend, lol. I’m just like “yes, he’s mine.” So she starts back peddling, “oh I wasn’t seriously hitting on him. I’m actually married. I don’t even really drink. I’m just having water…” I told her that it wouldn’t matter if she was hitting on him anyway. And she just splutters “oh it’s great to see that you’re so secure, I’m really secure in my marriage too.” if you’re so secure why are you trolling the stripclub begging guys that AREN’T your husband to buy your non-alcoholic drinks. It was too pathetic for words so i sent her back to get a drink from my man. *snort* B*tches can try to throw their p*ssy at him all they want, that d*ck belongs to me and he knows it! My man ain’t goin anywhere, lol. My d*ck. MINE!

/end thread jack

Post # 63
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011


There was a guy a few years ago that we didn’t take the title that we were in a relationship but we did everything like we were.  Spend holidays with his family and so forth.  This went on for about 3 years.  I was tired of him not ready to commit and started dating someone and he started dating someone.   We were always very good friends.  He got someone pregnant and decided to marry her.  He brought her over to my house to introduce us.  She was younger and didn’t like the fact that we were still friends.

We still talked all the time.  I never called him at nights or on weekends. He would call me with a joke, I would call him with a joke.  I would call to tell him someone asked about him.  We never talked about getting back together or anything like that.  I guess his wife wasn’t comfortable with him talking to me so he had me listed under my last name in his phone, which I had no idea.  Just so happen something went wrong with her phone and she took his because he has a cell for work.  That would be the day I would call him and as soon as I heard that someone picked up the line I just started talking not giving her a chance to say hello.  She didn’t say anything and hung up.  I thought it was a bad connection and called back and she wouldn’t answer.

He sends me pics of his kids all the time.  He opened a new business and called and told me to spread the word to my friends.  We are just like best friends and his wife had no reason to dislike me other than the fact that I was kind of his ex.  At one time they were having problems and he was going to leave her, not for me, and he called cause he needed someone to talk to and I tried to get him to see things in a different light which he did and they are still together.  He has tried to give me ideas from his wedding.


I’m saying all of this to say don’t look for a negative in every situation.  Honestly, I am still friends and still speak with all but 1 of my ex’s.  I don’t think you shouldn’t have to tell your Fiance to stop speaking with someone.  He should know if this person is crossing the line and out of respect for the relationship he should know that he needs to end it on his own.

Is there a reason you don’t like her other than her being his ex?  I hope everything works out for you.

Post # 64
4430 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I didn’t even have to read this whole thing…I honestly read 2 sentences and it definitely looks like you are both in an immature relationship, to be honest.  If you have to play mind games with him and are checking when his ex shows up on fb again…you aren’t ready to get married.

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