(Closed) FI still angry at ex wife, wtf?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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2780 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I wouldn’t worry about it, the fact that he wants to be cordial towards her when she’s thrown at him is a good thing. Why make an already uncomfortable situation more so, pretending he doesn’t know her would be weird. They did share 5 years of marriage, and nothing will ever change that. Every relationship is different, I would be more worried about a man constantly trying to ruin his exes reputation every chance he gets then someone who is mature enough to be cordial in passing. His is one thats even harder to deal with, this girl was abusive and that can be very hard to get pat and fully recover from. It doesn’t sound like he’s dwelling on it regularly, so I would say he’s moved on.

Post # 18
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11268 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i agree with pp.  i am sure that he is “over” her and wants to move on with you.  it will take time for him to recover from the abuse and rebuild his self worth.  keep in mind that everyone is different when it comes to healing.

stay strong and supportive for him.  that is what he needs for overall closure and acceptance.

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