- 6 years ago
I am so lost, hurt and humiliated that I don’t even know where to start.
Fiance and I were supposed to get married in 3 months!!!!!! And now all this…
Since January I have noticed that my Fiance has been acting weird. I thought it was all the stress from the wedding and planning and all the life changing decisions. But lately he was worse…disconnected…I just knwe something wasn’t right.
I actually started the conversation joking, saying I thought he was geeting cold feet but then he said we needed to talk.
My heart was beating so fast I thought I going to have a heart attack.
Then he basically said he was not sure he wanted to marry me because he thinks he is gay!
My jaw just dropped and tears poured from my eyes! I could no believe those words!
He said he had once kissed a guy in college and that was it. But now there was this guy in his office and he felt attracted to him! I asked if he was having an affair with the guy and he said they kissed but nothing happened!
I left the house immediately, I just could not hear one more word from him!
I called off the wedding the day before. I told my sister, the only one I could open up with. And said to my parents that things were just not supposed to be.
As my parents and his parents were paying for the wedding it was a big upset for both families.
But the biggest problem was when his sister called me. She said I was lunatic and added a bunch of words to that. I just wanted to scream: you brother is gay!!
I told ex-FI to come clean with the family and tell them the reason why we are not getting married anymore. Otherwise I will tell the truth.
He said that he loves me and wants to “work on things” but I think he is doing this just because he is scared of me telling his family the truth…
I am so hurt I barely have gotten off my bed…