(Closed) FI thinks my decor ideas are boring….

posted 7 years ago in Decor
Post # 4
171 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

What kind of ideas does he have?

Post # 5
2084 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 1993

There’s nothing wrong with wanting a classic, elegant look. Have you asked him if there are any particular themes’ he’d like incorporated? (Just to add a touch of his personality through your vision – for example, if he could suggest a particular flower or colour he’d like to see amidst the cream) x

Post # 8
1325 posts
Bumble bee

Eh…. no I think you are just a normal person who wants an elegant wedding. lol.

You may want to try to incorporate as many of his personal suggestions as..inspirations as you can. Maybe your garter could be a little quirky, if you are having one.

I have the opposite problem. My guy is very “vanilla” and doesn’t want ANYTHING offbeat. ๐Ÿ™



Seriously though…pirate themed?? Lemme guess. He also wants someone there doing balloon animals.  =P

Tell him he can have a pirate themed bachelor party. lol

Post # 9
2084 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 1993

Well you could compromise? You can have the simple, romantic look you want and he gets the Jack Sparrow cake? Tongue out

Post # 10
211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You could let him have some crazy grooms cake where he could incorporate his personality. That or have a themed rehearsal dinner or something like that.


I’m actually a little surprised he is so opinionated, usually guys don’t care about that kind of thing too much. My Fiance just tells me to do whatever I want, I kind of wish he had an opinion ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 11
822 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I think letting him have his own themed grooms cake is a great suggestion!

I am also very into the classic simple look.  We decided on black/white/red for our wedding but I want it mainly white with splashes of black and red whereas Fiance would like everything to be mainly red.  He has said that I get the final decision tho, and I agree that classic still looks good in photos years later.

I sometimes feel boring next to Fiance, he has such an outgoing personality whereas everything for me is more black and white but I guess its true opposites attract!

@TinyTina: Did you have an engagement party?  What did you do for that?

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