(Closed) FI told FSIL she can come… family now singing a different tune….

posted 8 years ago in Family
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I’m sorry you are dealing with this difficult situation. I completely understand. I’m Father-In-Law are the exact same way.

I have basically learned that I cannot count on them and take whatever they say with a grain of salt. I wouldn’t accept much help from them, just because they could change their mind once something else happens and than you are going to be scrambling to get someone else to cover what they offered to do. In my ILs, it is the Future Brother-In-Law that is the “favorite” and gets whatever he wants. They make so many excuses for him…it’s ridiculous.  I honestly have anxiety attacks when I have to be around him. He’s so out of control that I cannot handle him. He thinks it’s all for the sake of fun, but it is so uncomfortable and embarassing at his ripe age of twenty seven and not twelve.

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