(Closed) FI Using Wedding Against Me

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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1382 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@PeachSnapple:  +1

OP: He needs counseling to learn how to fight fair. He can’t just pretend his words don’t have meaning when they hurt you and your relationship. This won’t end with the wedding, he’s changed his threat before. Unless you want to spend your life being threatened any time you tick off your husband, he needs to learn to fight fair BEFORE you get married. If you don’t want to do counseling, sit him down and tell him how destructive and hurtful his threats are. Show him this: http://cmhc.utexas.edu/fightingfair.html and promise each other that you will follow it together. If one of you breaks a rule, the other should stop the fight and ask them to fight fair, and any violation needs to be apologized for. Good luck.

Post # 47
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132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016 - Church in Shedd Oregon

There are certain things my fiance and I have agreed are unforgivable and should they happen the realationship will end; cheating, physical abuse and the phrases “It’s over” “I don’t want to marry you” or “I want a divorce”. No matter how mad we are those things will not be siad by either of us (unless they are absolutely true) because we value our realationship more than to tarnish it with words in a fit of rage. 

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