(Closed) Fi wants these Response cards….

posted 6 years ago in August 2013
Post # 3
187 posts
Blushing bee

When I first starting thinking about RSVP cards, I thought I would want something fun like this… however, we ended up going with something fairly standard.  I went the standard route because people seem to have enough difficulty with regular RSVP’s.  With something like you posted, people may be confused and not answer correctly as to whether or not they are attending.

Post # 5
8483 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

lol! I think they’re adorable. If your families wouldnt be offended then I dont see a problem with them.

Post # 6
11233 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

HA! I love these. 

Post # 7
275 posts
Helper bee

Maybe you could send them to people who you know would appreciate them and then send the other half traditional cards?

Post # 8
3120 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My only thing with these kind of cards is that when we decline, we’re usually pretty bummed about it and they don’t usually have selections that reflect that. 

Also, your second language guests good be pretty confused….and the place for the names isn’t very obvious so I would bet you get some no named responses!

Post # 9
233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If they are somEthing your Fiance loves, could you make a card this style, but with “responses” that are moreappropriate/related to your wedding. 


Or, two sets of reply cards- one set like these for your friends etc, a second regular set for those you conquer earned wont see the humor?

Post # 10
995 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Watch out, there are some etiquette police out there who might be so morally offended by your choice of RSVP that they will feel compelled to send back a more traditional and appropriate choice

Post # 11
2777 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Eh I don’t care for them but thats just me.  I agree with OP that if you have non English speakers and might be offended due to booze comment then yea don’t go for it.  I know its his wedding too so just talk to him and try to use reason.  

My Fiance really really wants to get up and tell the story to everyone at the reception that we met at a bar when he was trying to speak broken Spanish to me.  He thinks its funny and my Spanish family will laugh.  I am not really in agreement.  I told him he should feel free to do that at the rehersal but it might make the reception at the wedding fall flat.  We are still in discussions about it.

Post # 14
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I wouldn’t choose these for my wedding (or I should say, didn’t consider it since the wedding is over) but I would LOVE to get one of these in the mail! I’d be sending back my RSVP ASAP. But I’d also think that if you use that RSVP it might be a pre-cursor to the type of wedding you’re having. So if I showed up and the wedding was super formal and elegant I’d be surprised. 

Post # 15
1575 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012


Post # 16
2324 posts
Buzzing bee

Meet half way? You could change some of the wording…..

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