(Closed) FI wants to use his dad's wedding ring……

posted 7 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Would you be ok with your FI using his dad's wedding band when his marriage went down in flames?

    No way

    No problem with me, he can use it

    I'm not sure….it's tricky

  • Post # 33
    9632 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    in yiddish, there is a word: “kinahora” which means the evil eye.  and i would say this ring has some bad mojo associated with it.  i’m not generally supersitious, but why start off a marriage with something that is already tainted.

    the only way i would use the ring is if he has it melted down and creates something new.

    Post # 34
    1417 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

    I wouldn’t like that bad juju!

    Post # 35
    7362 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I wouldn’t care. My SO’s father and mom and divorced and had some rough waters. He also want his fathers ring. I don’t personally see the big deal. Its simply and object it has no special powers to affect anything, so in my eyes there wouldn’t be an issue.

    Post # 36
    114 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2000

    @skippydarling:  one suggestion–have a Jeweller melt down the ring and remake it into his own personal design. The ring must have some sentimental value to your Fiance. A bit of a ‘Baptism by fire’ to bless the ring 🙂


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