(Closed) FI wants to work half day the morning of our wedding. I was hurt.

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

If he already promised you that he would help, he should keep his promise. Is it that he wasn’t able to get off or he just didn’t think it would be a big deal to you? Maybe he just doesn’t realize how much time baking, cleaning, decorating, and getting ready will take. You should sit down with him and explain in detail exactly what all you have to do that morning. If he’s unable to get off of work, are there any family members or friends that could help you? I hope everything works out!!

Post # 18
5495 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’d be upset too! He promised to help you and he’s WORKING?!?! WAs he not able to get the time off, or did he just decide he wanted to work? Do you have anyone else that can possibly get that morning off to help you so you have time to do your own things too?

Post # 19
903 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Okay, I guess that changes things. It sounds like you really need his help that day. Maybe sit down with him and explain that you really counted on his help, and spending that time with him. He should be able to get off work for one day.

Post # 20
375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

My guy has completely checked out on wedding planning, I am def counting on him for the set-up and flow of events that weekend since I have done all the HARD work. I think a chat in the works between you two…tell him you were hurt! I’d call the boss myself so I could have my help 🙂

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