(Closed) FI will be having a stripper loaded bachelor party… and I'm okay with that!

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 76
437 posts
Helper bee

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nessdawwg:  I reckon it’s cause this topic is too close to home for alot of people, wheras polygamy is a mysterious tabboo and all exciting lol. Personally I dont know where people find the time…

I’m glad you liked it! All I could imagine was sweaty balls on my shoulder, not ok in my book lol. Haha do it!

Post # 78
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Do the entries start with “Dear Diary”?

Post # 80
1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I don’t feel comfortable with it, but I also think it’s up to couples what they’re comfortable with, not what other people think they should be comfortable with! Fiance knows that and respects that and that’s the most important thing, that both people in a partnership are on the same page. I totally agree with you on that BS about “the guys plan it so I can’t control it.”

Post # 82
11736 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Id pay to see my husband get a lap dance. He’d be super embarrassed and awkward I Imagine. He’s not into strippers but if he wanted to have then for a bachelor party or went to someone else’s party with them I wouldn’t care. I would be more just disappointed that he was objectifying women in that way, especially now that we have a daughter !

Post # 83
8575 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

As odd as it might seem, I’m planning the major parts of SO’s bachelor party… he honestly doesn’t want/care for one, but I think he should have one. He doesn’t have anyone super closer to him that have enough money to throw him one, and I don’t want him to feel left out. I plan to pay for all of the guys, including SO.

I don’t plan on doing anything huge.. renting a few booths at a really nice gentlemen’s club, laser tag and then probably a stop at hooters.

Post # 84
373 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

Well I  guess am somewhat like you. My Fiance and his groomsmen went to Lebanon for his Bachelors and vistied a cabaret and got a lapdance. He was really excited about going. I was really okay with him going to a stripclub and get a lapdance. I trust him 100 % and I know her wouldnt go too far. I think its healthy that you give your man a free night or a weekend before the wedding. 

After he came back he was very honest with me and told me everything that went down he showed me pics and we had a laugh. He was very relaxed and very happy and told me that it feels amazing being able to talk to me honestly without me getting angry or upset.

Post # 85
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2015 - The Lodge at Mackenzie Place

Sounds like a kick ass night with the boys!  I hate when the bachelor parties are all about “embarassing” the groom in front of his buddies, so this sounds like a better way to celebrate to me!  I say slip him a couple of dollar bills in his pocket before he heads out and tell him to win big at poker.

Post # 86
487 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I don’t think my Fiance will go that crazy with the strippers but I dont care if he sees some naked chicks. 


Post # 87
278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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nessdawwg:  i totally like your optimism and your want for your fiance to have a good night but you cant honestly believe that its rare for strippers to sleep with clients and especially on a bachealour party :O You can be ok with it but you also have to be realistic.

For some reason I know quite a few strippers (i guess house prices and uni expenses are just getting really expensive where i live) and all of them will also accept money for sex… that is just the case and im so sorry but its far rarer to find a stripper that wont do it then one that will… quite often they will work as both. And its their job on a bachealour party to make sure the groom to be has the best night, there will be a lot of drink and a lot of egging on.

And you think that your fiance wont partly because his friends like you? Well you must like your friends but it seems from what you said that you wouldnt tell them if their partners cheated on them, so I wouldnt rely on that. (i actually find it horrible that you wouldnt tell them just because you fear a sh*t storm)

But anyways if you trust your fiance enough then thats fine, you would not find out otherwise anyway i guess but I just find it crazy that you would think that


Post # 90
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Stevens Estate

I think all couples have different views on this subject..and I say as long as both parties agree on what is going to happen then there is no problem.

I personally do not favor the idea of strippers. Luckily Fiance has no interest in them either. It’s not that I don’t trust him…that couldnt be further from the truth.

I just dont like the idea of some dirty skank touching or rubbing on my man. I just think some strippers get to upclose and personal. Topless is one thing…but having some girl flash her crotch in my guys face freaks me out

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