(Closed) Fiance being mean.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

If you want to talk to him about your relationship you need to do it in person, not via email.  I would pick a time when you are relaxing together and things are calm (aka don’t bring this up while you’re in a fight). Calmly explain to him how you are feeling.  Let him know you need more support from him and you need to feel like he’s on your side. Give him a chance to give you his feelings on the relationship.  Really listen to him and try to see things from his side instead of just being defensive (and ask him to do the same). Things won’t get better until you have a rational discussion about it.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It sounds like something is bothering him and he’s not communicating well with you about what it is.

His behavior is a bit immature. I think a heart to heart talk is needed, in person, not over email. Words/feelings get so misunderstood over email and while you are distracted at work. You guys need to talk when you’re both 100% focused on each other.

You both need to be clear about your expectations (in regards to communication, texting). He needs to be reasonable when situations are out of your control- like the wedding invite, although it is unusual that someone would be invited without their Fiance.

 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Maybe he’s overwhelmed by wedding talk, try to have a nice evening with him without talking about wedding stuff. Ask him how he’s doing, don’t ask straight on if he’s mad sometimes that bothers them.

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