Fiance bought a house, without my input.

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 61
104 posts
Blushing bee

It sounds like he is planning a life without you…or that he is doing what he wants and you’ll be the roommate paying him rent so you have no say in HIS LIFE.  It just sounds like he is lining everything up so he has no legal strings attached to you.  If the house is in his name, he can tell you to get out whenever.  If I were you, I would leave over something this serious.

Post # 62
625 posts
Busy bee

breeze7m :  there’s very few outright red flags in my book. This is, without a single doubt, one of them. I’d walk. No, I’d run. 

 I’d even go so far as to say he expects that’ll be your next move. 

Post # 63
1226 posts
Bumble bee
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Post # 64
428 posts
Helper bee

breeze7m :  sorry bee, doesn’t look like he is planning for a life together. 
I think you should sit down and ask him why he does not want to buy a house together and tell him you need to know as you will need to make decisions based on that. DO not pay rent if he asks, just run!!!

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