Fiance called off Wedding and Broke off Relationship

posted 1 month ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

ziglierie1 :  Bee you said the key words “mind fuck”.  That’s what he does for his enjoyment and when he no longer enjoys doing that then he moves on….like he’s currently doing.

When you do get out (and please do it asap!) block him on every mail, media device, social media platform you can find because all sociopathic assholes eventually check in with their exes and see if they can get one more mindfuck experience……   Don’t let him do that to you.

Post # 32
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403 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

The trash took itself out. Congrats!

Bee, please don’t take this man back again…and he will come back. He probably found himself a new boo, but once things fail ( and they always will until he gets severe therapy) he will come back to you because you are his homebase. He is not in love with you. He just enjoys you loving him because he needs that. Please tell him to kick rocks when he comes crawling back. You deserve so much better. You are not being dumb, you have been abused and manipulated, but now you need to take responsibilty because you know who and what he is, and to go back now would make absoulutely no sense. Try and move out now. He will continue to charm you, especially once he senses you are pulling away. The game is in getting you back, and once you become a challenge it will be “game on.” Please remember that you are only a game to him and he will continue to play with you as long as you allow. 

Post # 33
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1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2021 - Kauai, HI

Bee so are so not dumb!  It’s so easy to fall into this trap. I fell into it once myself and looking back it so easy to see but when you’re in it you’re blind.  These guys are masters at this game.  I’m so happy you aren’t married. Focus on therapy and healing and when you’re ready you’re going to meet the right guy and you’ll be blown away by how easy it can be.  Do not give him any more chances. This behavior will never ever change. 

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