(Closed) Fiance can see shoes, right?

posted 6 years ago in Shoes
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve never heard anything about him not seeing the shoes! 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

Of course!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My husband saw mine. He saw my jewelry too. I don’t think it’s a big deal

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper

I told him all about my shoes before the wedding.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My fiance has seen mine- and everything else I’ve bought for the wedding except my dress.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Oh yeah, most guys won’t even see the shoes when they see you in the dress.  I’ve showed all my ‘potentials’ to my Fiance.  He’ll have a coronary when I do buy them, I’m sure, but I don’t care if he sees them, or even my veil, because it’s all nothing without ‘the dress.’

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

That’s totally up to you, girlfriend!  I don’t think there are any “rules” regarding the Fiance seeing your wedding day accessories, and lots of brides these days forgo wedding superstitions and even let their FIs see the dress!  If you want your entire ensemble to be a surprise, then keep your shoe choice on the DL–if it doesn’t matter to you, then walk around like its nobody’s business in those shoes!  🙂

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Fiance saw my shoes because I am trying to break them in. He saw my make up too because he was home for the trial. And he knows I’m having my hair up because my MU Artist let it slip. I’m not happy about that last part I don’t think men care too much about shoes.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

my Fiance has seen my shoes, veils, jewelry… I made them all at home and the shoes are my boots I wear almost daily so there was no stopping that.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My Darling Husband saw mine, do whatever you want!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I’d show him mine, if I had them yet.  Or if he asked.  I could probably walk around with them on for a few days and he wouldn’t notice.  I personally probably won’t show him the jewelry or my veil, but I did show him my garter when it came in.  Whoops!!

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I didnt show my husband anything except my bouquet because I know he never remembers flowers. i wanted everything about my outfit to be comeplete surprise.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I showed mine to Fiance. To make sure I wouldn’t be too tall lol he thought they were hot!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

Yep, totally fine. I took dance lessons with Darling Husband to break mine in.

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