- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
Four years is nothing compared to a lifetime together filled with cheating and lies. He already did it to you more than once and he is used to coming to you and filling your ears with wonderful things knowing full well you’ll fall for him again and again..I had an exboyfriend that for two years did the same thing to me, over and over again, and as much as I thought I was in love with him, I had to accept and admit to myself that he didn’t respect me at all, and he was with me because I was a sure thing to him. This is exactly what it looks like with you. One time cheating shame on him, but twice, shame on you. You deserve so much better than him, and as much as you think he can change, you are NOT married yet. Marriage is not easy as it is, why start it with this baggage on top of everything else. Be alone for a while, even if it’s hard, like my mom once told me, no one has died of a broken heart. Be strong and quit it while you have a chance. He sounds like a slimeball to be honest. Once he has lost respect, you will never gain it back. Good luck, and I know that’s not what you want to hear, but it’s the truth.