Coming back to this to explain myself..and I know I am not alone in this…
I dated a guy like this-heck-was semi-engaged to a guy just like this. I found out he was shlepping his ex wife. Saying they were gonna get back together.
I went down there and confronted him AND her. Best thing I ever did. Aired HIS dirty laundry-She was at his house to boot-and HE wouldnt come to the door. I showed her the ring he bought me, the messages he sent, most recent that afternoon…she told him its over. They did break up, so he lost out on TWO girls.
Your guy…ya, not thinking about you, but about being alone and HIM right now.
He BEGGED me. CRIED to me. Called me 50 times a day…I actually ALMOST felt bad for him. I started to doubt my decision to leave him. Then I started dating (my now Hubs). oh boy….I at one point wondered if Ihad made the wrong choice because he was so darn convincing…saying how much he loves me…how he wants only me, he will do anything, it was a mistake…
I got a restraining order in the end. lol
Now, fastforward six months. I am happily with my man, and I get a strange text. It is from his number. Asking to meet, talking weird…
Turns out it is his current Girlfriend…who *drumroll* is 3 months pregnant with his baby and was going through his phone and texting all the girls in it to see who they are!!!
I told her to GTF away from him as fast as she can…turns out he was doing the same thing to her. She wanted to meet, I told her no frickingway. I am done with that, hae moved on, and already gave her more time that he is worth.
These snakes dont change…just shed their slimy old skin and then slither around ,tarnishing everything they come in contact with until the next one.