(Closed) Fiance disappointed with his stag…what to do? *warning – long*

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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4485 posts
Honey bee

That’s too bad that things didn’t go well. Parties like that are out of the couple’s hands entirely (and are planned by the honor attendants, not the couple) so you pretty much take what you get. Some couples don’t get anything at all. At this point, it’s ok to feel bummed but you just have to move on to the next thing. Have fun at your wedding and married life after that and try not to dwell on this one event that didn’t turn out as expected.

In your position, there is nothing you can or should do other than just be supportive to your fiance. You can’t change the fact that his buddies left much to be desired and there’s no rewind button to fix anything.

Post # 4
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I personally would talk to them. Notconfrontational but kinda a ” fi was really bummed about the comic thing being full, and while he liked hanging wih you it wasn’t  exactly what he had in mind” 

Or talk to your Maid/Matron of Honor about it. Ask her to talk to them and come up with a ” surprise”. Co- ed Bach?

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I personally would talk to them.

do not do this is my advice – shes bummed that hes bummed but you dont make a small deal bigger by talking to guys about their perceived “duties” fail no matter how nicely she tries to word it

i understand you are upset for your FI OP but some things you have to let go – doesnt mean he has shitty friends but if they are all low key type of guys then they went out, hit a bar, went go karting so its not as if they did nothing.  

 

What would you do in my position? 

nothing – stay out of it, spend some time with your Fiance and maybe a bj to put a smile on his face. if the comic expo sells tickets maybe by him some for next year as a surprise

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Thought about it more. Eloping has better advice. What she said.

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