Fiancé has been cheating with escorts!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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1493 posts
Bumble bee

Don’t be ashamed! This is a poor reflection of him, not of you. 

I wish I could just fly over to you and give you a big hug. And also fly over to him and give him a swift kick in the ass. 

Arm yourself up with a army of support. Lawyers, friends, family, a understanding therapist. Because hell no are you going to live with this and with him. Just fuck that. Just say fuck it and move out and on without him. 

Post # 33
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540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, and you know what to do.

Just wanted to say: so sorry, bee! frown

Post # 38
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365 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

collette1505 :  you said yourself, you know deep down what you need to do but no one can make that decision for you. I’m so sorry that you’re in this position. What support do you have? I know it’s hard because of the children but He has disrespected you and your children! Sometimes people stay for the children but they deserve to have a stable and happy life, not a life where their mother is beside herself with worry every time their father is away. You also deserve better. Good luck and stay strong x 

Post # 40
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540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

collette1505 :  Focus on you and the kids. Take them to new and fun places. It sounds like you’ve got supportive people in your life, so it’s a good idea to move back to your hometown. It will be great for the kids to be around their relatives again. And in the midst of it all, don’t forget to take time for yourself. Find a new hobby, or pick one up again that you stopped doing. Go to dinner with friends. Don’t forget to take care of yourself too.

Post # 43
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168 posts
Blushing bee

You need to to leave him.  He does not respect you.  Just the fact that you have been together for 11 years, have 2 kids, but are still not married is a red flag to me.  He 100% will cheat on you again.  If you stay, you are giving up your dignity and self respect.  I am so sorry you are going through this.

Post # 45
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2659 posts
Sugar bee

OP-YOU have nothing to be embarassed about, your husbandis the lying scumbag and you are his vicitim. You trusted him and he betrayed you.  You re NOT in the wrong here, he obviously is.

 

Good luck to you.

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