(Closed) Fiance hinting at needing more time alone…

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

guys are pretty straight forward – ask him if he wants more alone time or not, b/c he’s been sending you mixed signals. And if he beats around the bush after you ask him nicely and directly.. then he shouldn’t complain! haha

Post # 4
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1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think he missed the attention he was getting by you, guys are so weird like that sometime.I think a little space apart is a good thing. Especially with the everyday stress of work and wedding planning sometimes I like to be alone and like that Fiance has school in the evening. It makes me miss him more and vice versa.

Post # 5
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11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

i agree with talking to him about it. and i also (for the record) thing alone time is a GOOD thing!! there is something to be said about that whole “absence makes the heart grow fonder” thing. 🙂 I have no problem telling fi to go away so i can miss him!

Post # 7
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Maybe he tries to text you on Saturdays because he feels guilty? Honestly, it sounds like you two have a solid relationship, that you two both are considerate of each other, so I’d suggest an honest conversation about it. Come up with the time each of you need together, and separate, and some time that he can do his thing without worrying about how you feel about it (and for you to have the same thing). It sounds like you guys have already made steps in this direction, so some clear communication about it might alleviate any remaining questions.

Post # 8
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435 posts
Helper bee

I think I’ve come to the conclusion guys are weird.  Of course we are too sometimes Smile!!

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