(Closed) Fiance is Being Difficult… Or is it Me?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think your request for him to stay home was unreasonable, but I think maybe you’re overreacting about what he said to the dog. I’m sure he intended it as a joke.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t think you were being unreasonable for him to stay home when he’s been drinking. If what he said to the dog really bothers you then you should just let him know when he is sober. I’m sure he meant it as a joke and didn’t mean to upset you intentionally. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well I’m happy you have us to vent to. My Fiance makes comments like this as a joke sometimes. Most of the time I laugh it off and put my own spin on it. If I’m tired I usually get kind of crabby about it. If my Fiance were to bug me about going out after he was drinking while I was trying to go to sleep that would already get me upset. I think a comment like that would just be icing on the cake. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ugh, if you come across the cure to being up all hours of the night, you know where the PM button is!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@LMD84: Ditto! I can’t seem to fall asleep earlier than 5am lately… Ugh Good luck with getting to sleep ladies!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Let all the thoughts in your head leave, don’t bring them to bed with you! that’s how I got rid of my insomnia. Easier said than done.

but anyway, yeah he totally shouldn’t have left to go fishing after drinking. The comment to the dog sounds like something Darling Husband would say when he’s sober lol. But it doesn’t help when he won’t listen to you. Does he usually drink that much when you go out? Darling Husband loves to drink, a lot. And when he crosses that line, I really put him in his place. Then he drinks in moderation most of the time because he doesn’t like to experience my bad side.

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