Post # 1
.. And I don’t feel nervous at all! I’m not worried, yet his friends are a buncha crazies. He is going to Vegas!! When I first thought about him going there last year it made me cringe. Why do I feel so at ease? Is this what its suppose to be like in a trusting grown up relationships? I remember with my ex, I would get butterflies when he went on guy trips without me and I would worry a lot, even though he was never distrustful. Maybe I’m just becoming more comfortable/ mature in my relationship. Anyone else feel completely comfortable when their fiance went away for a bachelor party?
Post # 3
@Mint2Bee: I do trust my Fiance, but I am not comfortable with bachelor parties. I don’t like the premise of it being the “last night of single man freedom.” I think it’s different with every relationship and that every relationship has different boundaries. I am glad you are totally comfortable with the idea though. It would be awful if you didn’t want him to go and he went anyway!
Post # 4
- Wedding: November 2012 - Oak Tree Manor
@Mint2Bee: Yup, same. I trust my Darling Husband and he stayed out of trouble in Vegas for the most part during his bachelor party. He tells me everything, and he called/texted me a lot while he was gone so I really didn’t worry too much about it. Hope your Fiance has a good weekend!
Post # 5
I’m with ya! My Fiance and his brother (and most of their friends) are not crazy guys that enjoy strip clubs. You couldn’t drag the Fiance and his best man into a strip club if you tried. My Future Brother-In-Law said that was one condition he had if his friends threw him a party before he got married. They all went out to bars and then out for a fancy dinner.
The Fiance plans on doing the same. It helps that everyone my Fiance is going out with is already married and most have kids of their own. Those crazy years, for the most part, are behind them. I trust the Fiance but all of those factors make things easier too.
Post # 6
If you’re nervous about your FI’s bachelor party then you probably shouldn’t be marrying him in the first place. It’s normal and healthy to trust your partner to go out on their own. My Darling Husband didn’t end up having one and I was disappointed for him when they cancelled it, as well as for myself because I had a fun weekend planned for myself!
Post # 7
Good for you! I wouldn’t worry either.
Fiance is going to Vegas for his with a few of his brothers and his very good friend lives there. Not worried. They’re specifically going in June during the WSOP events so I imagine they’ll spend most of their time playing poker. Fiance doesn’t drink when he plays. I imagine they’d take one night to go out and have some fun but I can’t imagine them going to a strip club. I wouldn’t care if they did I guess.
Funny, Fiance just got back from New Orleans and said him and his friend he was with stopped into a strip club on Bourbon St because someone they knew offered to get them drinks there. He did say one of the ladies was very talented pole dancing so his friend gave her a $20. I think they left after their one drink. He’s too stingy to spend his money on strippers in all honesty.
And…I’m going to Vegas too for my bachelorette party, and we’ll be doing the traditional partying more than they will be, that’s for sure! We’d be more likely to get into trouble than they would be knowing my friends…
Post # 8
I trust my Fiance at home, at work, out on the town, in a strip club, in a brothel.. you name it. If I didn’t trust him, I wouldn’t marry him. I don’t want to live my life like that.. always worried. Life is too short!
Post # 9
@Mint2Bee: Yay, good for you! The only thing that makes me nervous about FI’s bachelor party is him or one of his friends getting arrested! LOL, they are all crazy, and even crazier when they get together. I told him the only request I’m going to make is that it’s at least a month before the wedding so if anyone breaks something or has a black eye they will have time to heal 😉
Post # 10
I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one who isn’t phased by a bachelor party! I was beginning to think I was strange for not caring. Haha
Post # 11
Good for you. Mine also did Vegas and I was totally cool with it. We’ve been together for 6 years, a full 1.5 of which was LD, so if you can’t trust then, it ain’t gonna happen. If you’re nervous about the bachelor party, I’d be nervous to get married.
Honestly, I was far more concerned someone would end up in a fountain or the roof of Caesar’s after a failed wolfpack outing than anything having to do with chicks.
Post # 12
- Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas
My Fiance is having his bachelor party in Vegas also, and I am not nervous at all. I trust him and all of his friends. 90% of our relationship has been long distance, so I got used to him partying without me ha.
Post # 13
@sanjessica: I trust my Fiance at home, at work, out on the town, in a strip club, in a brothel.. you name it. If I didn’t trust him, I wouldn’t marry him. I don’t want to live my life like that.. always worried. Life is too short!
LOL but I agree with you.
Post # 14
@Mint2Bee: oh thank god, a sane post about bachelor parties. Yes, it’s amazing that you trust your man.
@sanjessica: AMEN! Darling Husband just threw a bachelor party for our now brother in law two weekends ago, AND I DROPPED THEM OFF at the strip club. I trusted him then, now, and in the future.
Post # 15
@bklynbridetobe: oh it wasn’t a criticism.. Sorry if it wasn’t clear. 🙂
Post # 16
@Mint2Bee: my Darling Husband didn’t have one but I wouldn’t have cared if he did.