(Closed) Fiance' is gone for the night..

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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3831 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

omg i have a party.  A ME party. 

I paint my nails, let the dog sleep in bed with me, watch stupid movies he would never watch with me. Sorry, but i LOVE when i have a night at home alone. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My husband is on night shift now so I have my nights to myself. I read and hang out with our dogs. And I totally take up the entire bed, it’s awesome!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@s2bmrscook:  Since we started dating, I can only think of 2 instances when he went out or went somewhere and I was at home :-/ One was to a bar with his friend to watch a fight when we first started seeing eachother and another was when he had to go out of state for 2 weeks before we moved to lock down our new place.

I did NOT cope very well, I literally lost 15lbs in 2 weeks because I was so beside myself. I miss him all day at WORK, so I have alot of respect for military wives or women with husbands that travel for work 😡

Post # 7
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688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I play my videogames, I play Nancy Drew, I surf YouTube and watch cat and dog videos. Or fail compilations. I make snacks, walk the dog to the store so I can buy more snacks. Call a friend to come over and consume wine. Listen to music and try out different makeup on myself. It gets pretty nerdy in that house when he is not around.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I usually do the same things I would do if he was around: eat, play videogames, watch TV, shower and sleep. Then again, I travel for work and he works long hours, so it’s a weekly occurance for us and really isn’t a big deal.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I sleep diagonally across the bed with the cats on either side of me and I love it!  Sometimes I go to the library and get a season of a show I like that he doesn’t and watch a bunch of episodes.  Or I play through old piano books, listen to CDs from highschool, read my old journals, go through my “memory box”.  On occasion I re-organize the linen closet and dresser drawers too, haha.

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ugh I am awful when FI is gone. I eat like shit, watch crappy movies/shows, and sleep in the middle of the bed.

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@badabing88:  +1,000. When we first started dating, we were pretty casual and did “our own thing” a lot. I can’t say I cared back then. However, since we’ve been serious (and engaged), I can’t actually think of a time when we have spent an evening separately. We just prefer to have free time together. Military wives are far more patient and understanding than me!  

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@s2bmrscook:  AH YES! pretty sure i end up with cartoons when he is gone too lol. 

Legit he is always around so its very rare that i actually get alone time.  So when he is gone for the night like 6 times a year, i squeeze in as much as i can!

Generally the night ends with painting my nails in bed watching Doctor Who….

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

i miss him terribly when hes gone but at the same time i love it! i get the bed to myself, i do whatever i want its a good time. As long as it doesnt go on for too many days. I usually take that time to do girly things like my nails, hair, long showers, or random cleaning. 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I read and watch Gilmore Girls!!

Trying to read with him in the house is impossible….he won’t stop talking!! Lol

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