- 2 years ago
- Wedding: February 2018
I found myself in the unenviable position of defending your Fiance somewhat ( definitely NOT my intention ) in this thread based on your initial post and a few comments/ updates. I have to ask at this point though. Is it truly possible that you had no idea that his base values and expectations are so vastly different from yours? You’ve been together for 6 YEARS and you had no idea??? He also has no idea what your core values and beliefs are???? Do you know each other???? At all????
Did you really tell him straight up and before he proposed that you had no intention of changing your name or were you vague about it? In your very first post you stated you would keep it for professional reasons which could have given him the idea you might keep it professionally but not personally…
You’re popping into the thread and dropping little tidbits/comments that I think are really just designed to keep the comments/ arguments going?!?! Why?!?!?! Are you enjoying everyone calling your fiancé a douchebag? Is it validating you??? I don’t know, I don’t really understand what you’re hoping to accomplish here. You’ve been given tons of support and advice yet all of your updates are just comments about what he said last… I agree with a previous poster. There’s something off here….