(Closed) Fiance is upset about me keeping my name.

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 211
656 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

jessie092 :  

I found myself in the unenviable position of defending your Fiance somewhat ( definitely NOT my intention ) in this thread based on your initial post and a few comments/ updates. I have to ask at this point though. Is it truly possible that you had no idea that his base values and expectations are so vastly different from yours? You’ve been together for 6 YEARS and you had no idea??? He also has no idea what your core values and beliefs are???? Do you know each other???? At all????

Did you really tell him straight up and before he proposed that you had no intention of changing your name or were you vague about it? In your very first post you stated you would keep it for professional reasons which could have given him the idea you might keep it professionally but not personally…

You’re popping into the thread and dropping little tidbits/comments that I think are really just designed to keep the comments/ arguments going?!?! Why?!?!?! Are you enjoying everyone calling your fiancé a douchebag? Is it validating you??? I don’t know, I don’t really understand what you’re hoping to accomplish here. You’ve been given tons of support and advice yet all of your updates are just comments about what he said last… I agree with a previous poster. There’s something off here….

Post # 212
7852 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

meanttobee2018 :  While I’m far from defending OP’s Fiance, I share your frustration/confusion about the OP’s “updates” in this thread and total lack of engagement with the dozens of comments/advice she’s gotten. OP what is the deal? I have the same question as meantobee – what are you trying to accomplish here?

Post # 213
3840 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

meanttobee2018 :  yes, she pops in with quotes from her fiance that seem designed to up the outrage… is this a troll?? If troll – it’s a bit sad that it seemed realistic enough that we believed it for 15 pages. If true – omg OP RUN like the wind. 

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