Post # 17
Hopefully there are some other details you can fill us in on so we can offer better advice! I don’t see why he would have a problem with you having your sister as a bridesmaid, unless he is mad that you are going back on your original decision to have a friend as your Bridesmaid or Best Man, thinking your family is manipulating you (but really… this would be a little ridiculous. I hope he wouldn’t get upset about something like this, and would instead support your decision).
Post # 18
I don’t quite understand why he is acting so unreasonable. Did you tell him your thoughts? That you couldn’t imagine having your sister in your wedding? If he listens to you then he’ll understand. I think he needs to apologize to your family too for acting so outlandishly out of place.
Post # 21
@Smiley-girl: no, he’s trying to control you and the situation. He doesn’t like the idea of your family having any influence. So his solution is to make the love of his life miserable. What a jerk.
Post # 22
Can you say E-G-O???? Wow I cant even believe he would act that way over asking your SISTER!! How the heck is it even any of his business?? You can ask whoever you want, its just a bridesmaid request, how is this life altering for him in any way shape or form? It seems that instead of him being worried about you being controlled by THEM, he is worried that you are not as controlled by HIM. You need to set his ass straight, I wouldnt put up with that crap for 5 seconds.
Post # 23
what the hell is wrong with your FI?
Also, you can have 2 bridesmaids, you know?