(Closed) Fiancé Knows Too Much

posted 5 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 17
871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Fi knows everything I say and I know everything he says.  Hell, sometimes I say “hey look at this”

Post # 18
1891 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Lol Fiance knows I go on here. He’s usually playing a video game or watching some kind of sport while i’m on. He’ll look over at me and be like, “how are the bees? buzz buzz!!”

If he had some kind of site he posted on, I would totally stalk to see what he was posting. Just because I’m nosey, not because i’m worried about what he’s saying. He wouldn’t look to see what I was doing, he isn’t curious.

Post # 19
1936 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Oh man!  I never talk about the website by name but I know he’s found it on his own when doing research.  I also think he knows i was on this site pretty heavily just by browser favorites and such….  Not sure if he’s ever stalked me down, but he’d probably get pretty bored.  I rarely talk about him, I don’t think I’ve ever posted a vent or drama session on here, and i’m overall much more guarded than some others! 

Post # 20
203 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Even better, because I refuse to use the name of the website when I talk to him, I’ve had at least one really confusing convo about it with him that went like this:

Me  “Oh, yeah I’ve seen that before.  This one bee did that and blah…blah…”

Him   “…wait, why does that make her a B-?”

Me  “Huh?”

Him   “You called her a B-.”

Me   “I… ohhh a B-!  Like bitch!  Oh man, hahahaha that is hilarious, ok gottagonowbye.”

And then he thinks I’ve lost my mind.

Yeah, totally different meaning if you are unaware that this site is called weddingBEE and that posters refer to themselves as bees.   

Post # 21
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I haven’t said anything mean about my fiance, and he would sometimes sit next to me while I read out the crazy posts. Then we would laugh and be grateful we don’t have drama like that. 

Post # 22
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

ohnatto:  This is off the topic, but love your Cremaster Cycle icon!

Post # 23
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Hahaha my fiance was like “I read your angry post about your sister the other day…” and I was like “excuse me?!?!?!” aparently I left it up so he decided to read it, not realizing it was me until the details came out…then he started thinking it was me. Now i make sure I close weddingbee when I am not at the computer. Not that I have anything to hide, Its just nice to have some thigns that are just yours.

Post # 24
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

My Fiance asks about the wellbeing of some bees on here that I’ve spoken to and often in the evenings while watching TV I’ll say Hey Fiance and male housemates! This bee blah blah blah and her SO blah blah blah so she did blah blah blah and he said blah blah blah… whose right and whose wrong?  And then I get to add a males opinon to their post 🙂  I don’t think he’d snoop though.. he’s not a good reader, never got taught properly in school and I am a very fast reader and typer so all my posts accidentally come out as essays!

Post # 25
229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Ohh. Haha. My Fiance calls it ‘the wedding forums’… I did tell him I’d made a post asking for advice on our honeymoon to canada. The next day he comes home calling me catcat1 (it’s not a username i use anywhere else)….. He was pretty grateful for the info I got in that post though!! Haha. 

Post # 26
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

@ohnatto  GroomHive!  HAHAHA.  I kinda wish there WAS such a website.  Although, who are we kidding… most men don’t really care.  I keep a blog and my Fiance totally keeps up on my posts.  But we are LDR, so it’s really the best way for him to stay involved / have any idea what’s going on.  He knows about wedding bee, but I doubt has any interest on following me here!

Post # 27
13594 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Nope.  Darling Husband doesn’t care.  I also wouldn’t care if he looked at all my posts, because anything I say on here, I’d say to someone’s face.

Post # 28
3025 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I have no idea if my Fiance knows the name of this site. He calls it “your forum,” but asks me daily “anything good on your forum?”


ETA: I just asked him. He had to think about it for about 30 seconds, and then he said…”Wedding Bees?” So I have obviously mentioned the actual name without really registering that I did so! Maybe you did, too, OP!

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 5 months ago by  prahajess.
Post # 30
184 posts
Blushing bee

Wait…..there is a site like this for men?!?!?!?!?!  


That is awesome!  


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