Post # 32
@MexiPino: exactly..it was just uncharacteristic for him….I know guys in general do stuff like that all the time…he never has…even declined to have strippers at his bachelor party. Just the face he decided to do it and paid for it himself took me a back a bit. Said he felt like it was his last opportunity before he was married. I think at the time, it made me worry that he was having a bit of second thoughts about getting married and wondering about all the things he would be giving up.
Post # 33
I absolutely do not think you are overreacting. My fiance doesn’t want strippers at his Bach party but even if he did, I would veto it. I trust him but to me it’s about honoring a commitment. He has me so why does he need to get off on someone else?
Post # 34
@Hcrab81: This is an ongoing discussion my Fiance and I have… I absolutely feel your pain! I’m not sure why I am always given the excuse “it’s just what you do at a bachelor party”. no, its what you do. I’ve never had a great sense of self confidence but I don’t ever want to imagine my Fiance getting a lapdance and having someone else’s breasts in his face and then come home to me. The line “well atleast he comes home to you at night” is just a line of bullshit. I’ve seen too much drama and chaos happen between couples/newlyweds when bachelor partys happen and so I say veto strip clubs all together.
Cheer up, if it still bothers you just talk to him and tell him your thoughts about the situation and hopefully he can respect your opinions.