(Closed) Fiance lap dance at friend's bachelor party

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 33
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I absolutely do not think you are overreacting. My fiance doesn’t want strippers at his Bach party but even if he did, I would veto it. I trust him but to me it’s about honoring a commitment. He has me so why does he need to get off on someone else?

Post # 34
288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Hcrab81:  This is an ongoing discussion my Fiance and I have… I absolutely feel your pain! I’m not sure why I am always given the excuse “it’s just what you do at a bachelor party”. no, its what you do. I’ve never had a great sense of self confidence but I don’t ever want to imagine my Fiance getting a lapdance and having someone else’s breasts in his face and then come home to me. The line “well atleast he comes home to you at night” is just a line of bullshit. I’ve seen too much drama and chaos happen between couples/newlyweds when bachelor partys happen and so I say veto strip clubs all together. 

Cheer up, if it still bothers you just talk to him and tell him your thoughts about the situation and hopefully he can respect your opinions. 

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