(Closed) Fiance left after I drug my feet on setting a date. Feeling powerless.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 91
1119 posts
Bumble bee

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Dylan28:  I’ve been following this thread and I don’t agree with some of the snarky and down right rude comments from some people who think they’re the next dr Phil. I think you need support right now and I’m here to support you. I hope you had a good day today and I’m looking forward to your updates

Post # 94
93 posts
Worker bee

Your ex-FI sounds like a smart girl. You, on the other hand, sound like a douchenozzle.

Post # 95
54 posts
Worker bee

Hope you’re doing okay. 

Post # 96
5892 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

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Dylan28:  I haven’t read all of these, but did read your last update. I hope you are doing okay. 

As to why she said yes 4 months prior to your break up, this is what i’ve seen before…girl gets so focused on “getting the ring” she puts blinders on when it comes to the man and relationship–all she can see is getting engaged. Once she got the ring, suddenly all the stuff she wasn’t paying attention to came to the forefront. And once you see all the faults, you often can’t unsee them. Then you fall out of love and you see more faults and it’s a vicious cycle. 

I know it hurts, but in the end everything works out for the best. You will meet another woman who is more compatible and you’ll know better and treat her (and the relationship) better. You will get through this!


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