Fiancé lied and IDK what to do now.

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
834 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015 - Family Farm

He’s Gaslighting you. Pure and Simple.


I have no issue with female coworkers or friends. I have no issue with harmless back and forth banter that some may construe as flirting. BUT my Darling Husband hides nothing. I know all the females he spends time with and am friendly with them as well. Darling Husband has gone out with them without me, met for drinks kind of thing.

BUT AGAIN my Darling Husband is honest. The one time I felt a woman was being inappropiate with him, I told him. He’s never spoken to her or of her again. There are no secret texts or phone numbers stored under names to hide them. BECAUSE HE’S A REAL MAN!

Real men don’t lie. They don’t actively choose to do things to make you insecure and jealous, no matter how bad the fight is. Because they love and respect their partner. Something your sad sack is clearly incapable of.

Post # 33
1308 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

um no my wasband would play these games and iʻd brush them off cuz i thought deep down i trusted him so what did it matter? what matters is that he thinks itʻs funny to hurt you and to bother you to get a rise out of you… like a child. and it wonʻt get better or stop once youʻre married. once heʻs married heʻll think heʻs secure and safe from you leaving him so heʻll push more and more boundaries. Stop planning and get some space. This is cute and interesting for a little while but for marriage, a long-term commitment, it goes downhill quickly.

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