Fiancé may have tried to cheat/things online in the past

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 46
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1147 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

Please read about gaslighting. It’s what he has done to you. Good riddance! You deserve better!!!!

Post # 47
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368 posts
Helper bee

My ex did this to me, almost exactly. Turned it all around and made ME feel guilty. Found out he had been cheating the whole time. I don’t know how I was strong enough to finally let go, I still cant believe I did it. Please be strong, the PP is right, its called gas lighting. Please try to get help fpr yourself and rebuild yourself so that you stay away and realize you deserve better. 

Post # 48
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98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

 

stripthatdown :  I experienced a similar situation with my ex, same excuses and makes a big deal of if I would bring it up. It took me walking in on him an a escort for me to finally accept what I already knew was true.  It’s hard to face reality but you really should consider leaving him. Believing his lies can put you at risk for diseases and even bigger heart ache. I know it’s hard but it will just get harder the longer you wait.

Post # 49
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1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - -

Wow . . . get out while you can.

Update: you did leave!! Huzzah!!! But also I’m sorry. What an asshole.

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