(Closed) Fiance NOW wants his daughter to live with us!!!! I am DONE

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

This is a trainwreck, and not your problem.  Run fast and run far.

Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Why are you with a guy who has SEVEN kids with someone else…and cheated on you with 12 (that you know about) other women? This can’t be real life because I refuse to believe that someone is that dumb to stay with a guy like this?

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Yeah, you should have been done a long time ago. I would assume the daughter was obviously prompted to write that note. He sounds like a skeez, get out before you become responsible for his whole brood.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

Um, don’t marry him? 

And why on earth isn’t he paying child support for SEVEN kids? 

Post # 6
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Helper bee

It’s pretty manipulative to ambush you with the whole note from his daughter thing. He probably was banking on you feeling bad and not wanting to say no in front of the daughter. 

Seriously he cheated on you with 12 women. Seven more and he could fancy himself Tiger Woods or something. I think you’re worth better than this and I hope you really are leaving this relationship.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

johnson1:  I don’t want to be flippant, but…duh? Of course you’re done. Any rational person would be.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Honey, leave!!! He clearly does not respect you, and you deserve to be treated better! I know it’s easier said than done, but you need to get out, take good care of yourself, and always remember that you are worth so much more than this!!!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Be done with this and toss him out like last week’s leftovers. Done and run!!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

johnson1:  What did you expect? This guy has proved time and time again that he’s scum and you’re still calling him “fiance.” Good luck with that.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would NEVER marry someone who cheated on me with one woman let alone 12 (holy cheeseballs!) To be honest you may love this guy and all but if you marry him you’re ALWAYS going to be on the losing end and you’re worth far more than being a caretaker for his brood! I hope you make the right decision for YOU! Xx

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Why would you want to be with a man who ISN’T paying child support for his children?

I…is this even real?

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I hope you actually are done… but I don’t think you are, or you’d be busy looking for a place to live and moving out and not venting on Weddingbee. If cheating with 12 women and treating you like crap wasn’t a dealbreaker, this won’t be either. 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Confused as to why you’re still with him after all of this? If anything, leave him for the sake of your own two children. They do not deserve to be raised in this trainwreck scenario.

 

Side note: Why would he NOT be paying child support to the mother of his seven children?

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

johnson1:  What do you expect? You aren’t done.. that is a joke… if him cheating on you with 12 women (that you know of) isn’t enough then why would this? Have fun being a doormat the rest of your life with a scumbag man who clearly knows he can get away with whatever he wants. I dont feel bad for you one bit – but I do feel bad for all of the children.

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