(Closed) Fiance NOW wants his daughter to live with us!!!! I am DONE

posted 6 years ago in Engagement
Post # 77
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1758 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

You know know if something happened to the mother you’d get ALL 7 children right? That’s what you sign up for when you date/marry someone with children.

And you obviously know he is still cheating on you don’t you? One does not give up ones 12 other girlfriends when one doesn’t suffer any concequences of ones actions. if you think otherwise, you are delusional. 

I don’t feel sorry for you, at all. please get your children the fuck out of this shitshow before they grow up thinking your scumbag douche hole fiance is some kind of role model. 

Post # 79
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1974 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

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johnson1: There are NINE innocent children in the middle of this. If his daughter wants to live with her dad then she should, and you should not prevent that. Frankly, he should be choosing her over you. If you’re going to stand in the way of that then he should get rid of you. But more than that, you should get rid of him first because he’s a lying, cheating, immature moron and you’re a terrible, terrible match. TWELVE other women?! Your relationship is toxic and you should be running in the opposite direction. If you can’t respect yourself enough to tell him to get lost then do it for your children. Good luck.

ETA: You’re scared that he’s going to cheat again because he 100% most definitely will. Nobody plays that many women and comes back from that. You need some self respect. It’s not like he had a drunk, sloppy kiss with a girl at an office party and felt so horrendously bad about it that he fessed up to you the next day. He cheated on you with a minimum of twelve other women. He WILL do it again! Honestly, get the fuck out. You’re worth SO much more and you don’t need him.

Post # 80
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9754 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Stop making stupid decisions.

 

Post # 81
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6370 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

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johnson1:  “I have no trust in this man, I constantly check his phone records of new affairs, I spend my days worried that he will cheat again”

And you’re with him…why? You have 2 feet. Leave!

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Post # 82
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

You don’t need to spend your days worrying he will cheat again because I would bet money he is still cheating on you and never stopped cheating and probably has a 3rd phone too.  LLLLLEEAAAVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE please!  Being single is 10 trillion times better than being with this loser.  I’m grossed out by him and you should be too

Post # 83
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6262 posts
Bee Keeper

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johnson1:  When you date trash, you have to accept that trashy situations will spring up in your life.  You didn’t take anyone’s advice last time, why would you now?  Leave if you mean it, or stop complaining about it.  But geez, the kid thing shouldn’t have been the dealbreaker at all.  If you had self-respect, you’d have been long gone.

Post # 84
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520 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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skunktastic: For real Skunk – I’m thinking the same thing. It is beyond pathetic, it is probably a troll post? How can it possibly be real?!! 

Post # 85
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227 posts
Helper bee

Oh my Lord. This has to be a troll. I know some situations are hard to get out of but really this!?! Having “FI” cheat on you with 12 different women (that you know of ) and also lying about children not just one child but bloody 7. HOW ARE YOU STILL WITH THIS MAN. Respect yourself and leave. It’s really not that hard of a decision.

Post # 86
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227 posts
Helper bee

Really I am surprised that you are bothered by this. I mean you have let this man run over you mulitple times you should be used to it. It’s your own fault to be sticking around.

Post # 87
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6370 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

“he has two younger childern by her that he doesnt claim, but they have his last name and she said thay are his. As well as other friends of the family”

Gee, with each update this guy sounds better and better *insert sarcastic eye roll here*

Post # 88
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193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Leave, but before you do tell him to get sterilized first. That way at least he won’t bring any more poor children into his joke of a life. The world is overpopulated as it is!

Post # 89
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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johnson1:  you won’t find evidence on his phone, it will be on his new burner phone that he’s found a better hiding spot for. 

HE NEVER STOPPED CHEATING ON YOU. He had 12 OTHER women. As in 13 including you. You don’t go from 13 women to 1 especially when your ‘main one’ let’s you get away with it!

Seriously! Get some fucking self respect! And be a better goddamn parent and stop thinking about yourself and your shitty fucking relationship and get your kids out of living in the same fucking house as that scum bag piece of shit. 

And if you don’t, stop fucking complaining about it. You dont have a right to complain about a situation that you are willingly participating in even with the information that you have. 

Post # 90
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551 posts
Busy bee

You deserve so much more than this BOY! Also,  I’d report him for not paying child support. 

I understand wanting to give people chances especially when its people you love, but not when he hasn’t changed! 

ACTIONS speak louder than WORDS! 

Why do you feel like you deserve this kind of treatment?! 

 

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