(Closed) Fiance NOW wants his daughter to live with us!!!! I am DONE

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 91
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

“I have no trust in this man”

 

So…. leave him?

Post # 92
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137 posts
Blushing bee

Didn’t read all the comments, but I’ll just say: majority of these Bees are well out of line criticising this poor woman. Fucksake – none of us know what kind of fucked up situ they’re in- but a woman being treated like a piece of shit by her partner- repeatedly – probably isn’t going to have the strength to ‘just leave’. 

Yes, she should leave this bizarre toxic entanglement ASAP, but c’mon- lay off her, OP- I think you need to seek professional support.

 

Post # 93
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323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

This has to be a troll post, just has to be. 😏

Post # 94
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1356 posts
Bumble bee

This just sounds like way too much drama!  I would get out and quickly too, especially since he cheated on you.  And having that many kids involved just adds to this hot mess – you need to provide a more stable environment for your own kids. Why are you still there??

Post # 95
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

He cheated on you with 12 women and you still weren’t done?

You shouldn’t have been planning on marrying this man at all unless you were willing to take in his kids. I also don’t think I could date a man who doesn’t pay child support for SEVEN kids (or the five that live with their mom anyways).

Good riddance.

Post # 96
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Worker bee

Is this for reals???!

Post # 97
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155 posts
Blushing bee

What. The?! Okay, let me start by saying that I actually feel for you. Why are you okay with being so mistreated? Why are you putting up with being cheated on? Why would you marry someone like that?

You are dead wrong to be mad at his daughter living with him! It’s not okay that he cheated but you should expect this to happen when you choose to stay with him after all his mess. Fathers SHOULD be doing these things.

Cut your losses and leave. You deserve better and you’re projecting your anger at the wrong person-that innocent child. 

Post # 98
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Please get out if you haven’t already. Seriously, if you saw this dude on the Maury show you’d be yelling at the TV “what a hot mess”. 

Post # 99
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Sigh. Even Tiger Woods got dumped when he cheated with a dozen women. But this man? No, this man has a woman who still thinks he could be loyal…

Post # 100
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710 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

johnson1:  seems to me he has no problem lying to you and hiding stuff very well, which prompts me to question whatelse is he hiding?  Now, taking out the fact that he has cheated on your with multiple people and lied about having all these kids for a whole year, when you marry someone you marry the whole sum of what they come with(children included) if you can not step up as his partner and a step mother then you don’t belong with him. You would not be raising his ex’s kids… They are HIS too. If all of his kids wanted to live with him that is their right as HIS children… Or heaven forbid the mother die.. They would live with their father…I just don’t think you are cut out to be a person in these kids lives aside from the fact your Fiance is a manipulator. 

Post # 101
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165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

This has to be a joke.. you wouldnt post this knowing everyone would say leave him.. obviously.. imso your having a little fun? get a life.

Post # 102
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Bumble bee

Is he like, ridiculously hot or something? Because it seems like he has no redeeming qualities at all. I was gonna say he must be hella rich, but ruled that out since he’s a deadbeat who won’t pay child support for 7 fucking kids.

Post # 103
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

If you are serious.. be thankful you have no kids with this man, leave and never look back. never contact him, the mother, the kids and move on. get therapy. you needd serious help. strangers on the internet are telling you this.

Post # 104
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Worker bee

Sounds like you guys aren’t a match. 

Post # 105
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I just want to say all the above advice and please get an STD/HIV test ASAP.

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