(Closed) Fiance refuses to pick a wedding party!

posted 10 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2007

My fiance didn’t pick his wedding party until about a month before the wedding. No, I am not exaggerating! haha. He didn’t feel right about picking a best man, so we just called them all groomsmen, even though i did have maid of honor. honestly, i don’t think anyone even noticed.

i’m not sure how to solve the uneven gm numbers… is he close with his father? 

Post # 4
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

My FH wanted 8 people to stand up on his side. Esentially every person her knew…lol. I had to make him break it down because that was just WAY too much! We landed nicely on 5.

We at one point toyed with the idea of naming all our Groomsmen – Best Men, as he couldn’t decide. Simply stating in the program that as each of the Groomsmen we’re equally important to us in different wasy we’d like them all to be considered the Best Man.  

They were all really ok with the idea and the BM’s didn’t feel like they were getting the short end of the stick by not having the same thing – even though we thought about doing the same thing on their end.

He’s being stubborn, give him a swift kick in the tushy and tell him to put on his big boy under-roo’s and make a decision 😉 You obviously can’t fire someone, they have their dresses…

Good luck! I think time and a gereral wering down of his shell will be the only thing that will make the right thing happen….he just really wants the day to be perfect obviously…which you can’t blame him for – it’s rather sweet.

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