(Closed) Fiance saw my dress by accident!

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I dont believe in these superstitions. I picked out my dress with Fiance haha. 

Honestly, he’s not going to remember anything. All he will remember is that its a white dress and on the wedding day, he’ll be all “OMG YOU LOOK SO GOOD!” Dont worry about it. 

Post # 3
1559 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I don’t believe it’s bad luck. The reason why I don’t want my fiancé to see my dress is because I want him to be suprised. I wouldn’t worry too much about this though. You’re right, he will probably forget by your wedding, especially because you said it wasn’t your dress. 

Post # 4
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Honestly, he won’t remember. To most guys, wedding dresses are all basically the same – until he sees you in it in your wedding day, of course 🙂

My now husband saw my dress on someone else after our wedding and had no idea it was the same dress.

Yeah it’s a bit upsetting but I don’t think it’s bad luck. Don’t stress!!

Post # 6
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

I agree with previous posters. It’s not bad luck and by the time your wedding rolls around your fiance won’t even recognize it! He probably didn’t even notice that many details of it anyways, guys aren’t like that!

Post # 7
736 posts
Busy bee

I don’t believe it’s bad luck at all. FH and I chose my dress together.

Post # 8
19 posts
  • Wedding: February 2015

Don’t worry! plus, they say bad lcuk is when your Fiance sees you in the dress before the wedding, not the pictures of the dress! I sent pics of the dress to my fiance right after we bought it 😉 it will look completely different on you on the day of your wedding and I’m sure he won’t ever remember seeing any pics in the first place 

Post # 9
2633 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I had a MILLION (literally) pictures of dresses all over. My laptop, tablet, magazines, pinterest and even after I wore my dress I doubt my husband would be able to pick it apart from other dresses just by looking at it. One day I came home from work and he was reading my bridal magazine and he happened to be on the page that had an ad for my designer with my dress as the picture. He showed me the picture and said that he thought that I would look good in something like that. I kept a straight face (miraculously) and at the wedding when he saw me in the dress he said it was beautiful. When I mentioned that he had seen it in the bridal magazine and made a comment that I would look good in it he said “Huh? Well I guess I was right” IT DID NOT RING ANY BELLS FOR HIM. lol

Post # 10
677 posts
Busy bee

Your dress will also look completely different when it is actually on you and you have your wedding day look. Don’t stress!

Post # 11
1320 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Guys totally don’t remember these things AND like PP said, it will look different (i.e. WAY MORE AMAZING) on you on your wedding day =) You’ll be fine!

Post # 12
2221 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

He saw a thumbnail photo of it since i was doing stuff in iPhoto & didn’t think about it being on there. I don’t really care though… he knows me and probably has a good idea of the kind of dress I’d pick anyways. 

Post # 13
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

The same thing happened to me. I asked him immediately afterwards what he remembered about the dress and he could not give me any details. I pouted for awhile, but I’m over it now. I honestly believe he will have no memory of it whatsoever. Plus, my hair wasn’t done, I didn’t have any makeup or accessories on so I will look totally different on our wedding day. I’ve left a few pics in my phone of “dummy” dresses i.e ones i didnt pick so maybe I can throw him off track just in case.

Post # 14
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2007 - City, State

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heatherl86:  I don’t believe that at all.. My first husband never saw my dress and we divorced within 2 years.. My hubby now I showed him my dress, and we will be married 8 years soon and are in love!! 

Post # 15
804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Yeah there’s no way that superstition is at all true. And trust me, he won’t notice or care. All he’ll notice is how great you look the day-of.

My Fiance has a lot of opinions about the kinds of dresses he likes (even slightly poofy = too poofy, mermaids and trumpets look like straight jackets, etc) but truly he has no idea so fuggetaboutit.

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