(Closed) Fiance Seems Unhappy

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
46678 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ask him if he’d like to have a shower together followed by a massage. Have the oil out and a towel on the bed when he walks in the door.

Post # 4
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Mr Rugbee is easy to please: when he’s having a rough week I do his laundry, bake him a cake & give him a nice long backrub. It always cheers him up 🙂

Post # 5
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@katiebeary:  I can relate! During the past month (well, it’s been going on for awhile, but it really hit hard in March), my Fiance had to finish his thesis so he could graduate. He was putting in some really long hours and definitely sounded stressed out.

Maybe, since he’s working some long hours, he might just want a relaxing night at home. Could you find out from someone he works with if he’s going to be eating there tonight? You could surprise him with a special dessert and have a movie night. Or, if he won’t be able to sit through an entire movie, maybe catch up on a favorite TV show. If the weather’s nice, and you have a suitable place, you could sit outside with dessert or go somewhere (if it’s not dark when he gets home) and get a glass of wine.

I hope this helps! GOod luck with everything!

Post # 6
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My Fiance loves going to the movies- maybe you could surprise him with a mid-week movie? You could take a big purse and pack it with his favorite movie snacks! Or bring the movie theater home- set everything up in your living room, snacks, pillows, etc. And have his 2 favorite movies there to choose from.

I think the shower/massage thing sounds awesome as well. Either way, something relaxing but fun. Good luck, I think its really sweet you want to do something for him!

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