(Closed) Fiance super jealous type??

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

eek – i want to stay on even ground here and not bring up my concerns with this… my husband, i’ve seen him get jealous before but he trusts me enough to go to a concert with girlfriends.

maybe a girls day at a spa? or girls night in with drinks and movies and a sleepover?

haha im 25 and i wish i still had sleepovers!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

UGH That’s no good. Honestly, that wouldn’t go over well with me if my Fiance was acting like that. Personally, there should be enough trust between the two of you for this to not be an issue. IMO. Good Luck!

Post # 6
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708 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I did a girls sleep ove weekend at a beach house. It was a blast!

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I wouldn’t marry someone who doesn’t trust me enough to know that I can go to a concert and not end up sleeping with someone else. Sounds possesive and insecure – two recipes for an emotionally and potentially physically abusive relationship.

Healthier relationships can be found. If this is a pattern, i’d look for a greener pasture.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

@lizbethamber: I think the fact that you “kissed another guy at a club and he found out through the grapevine not by me…”, even though you weren’t “technically” together is what is bothering him about this. From what you have stated, it seems like in his mind, you were “technically” together when that happened. I suggest that you and him have a long talk about what you each expect from your relationship. If either one of you can’t trust the other one to behave when out with friends, there will be problems down the road, if you don’t get it resolved now.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

My hubby is a super jealous type, he used get mad if we’re out somewhere together and someone started hitting on me.  It has gotten (slightly) better since we’ve gotten married, though. 

Maybe suggest that he comes along and plays Dirty Delete for you and your girls and then volunteer to do the same for him and his friends one night?

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wish my Fiance would get a little jelous. He doesn’t seem to care what i do. He says he trusts me but, sometimes i think it would let me know he cares if he showed some jelousy when another guy is hitting on me. I am more so the jelous one in the realtionship. But, your Fiance seems to take it a little far.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Your fiance really should be okay with you going out without him. It’s a serious warning sign if he’s not. Trust is really important in a successful relationship.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

@lizbethamber: What exactly do you mean by 

id like to have my cake and eat it too…i just cant seem to find the words to make him understand…

I can’t be the only one who picked up on that and wondered…..

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Wonderwoman217: I am also curious as to what that statement means….

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Wonderwoman217: I assumed she was just misusing the expression? But that’s not a bad question, Wonderwoman.

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