Fiancé wedding gift idea-good or bad?

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Is this a good wedding gift?
    Yeah! He’ll love it! : (57 votes)
    93 %
    Heck no. Calm down girl! : (4 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 2
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2018

    I think this is sweet and not at all over-the-top!

    Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2017 - Pearson Convention Centre

    I think this is a seeet idea 

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    I like the idea!

    Post # 5
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    alwaysinmountains1 :  

    Of course it’s ok! He’s the man you’re about to marry!  Give him the thoughtful gifts you chose from the heart.  

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    Great idea! The lube will be handy to make sure everything is lubricated enough.

    Post # 7
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    Blushing bee

    Love this idea! 

    Post # 8
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    alwaysinmountains1 :  I think this is great! I’d get rid of the lube though personally, you can always pack some in case you need it, but i personally think they all taste gross and feel weird. Everything else is more sensual and the flavoured lube seems to cheapen it a little. 

    Post # 9
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    I like this idea. And congrats!!

    Post # 10
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    Great idea!

    Post # 11
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    Helper bee

    I think he will like it! Go for it bee! 

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2019 - Chateau Lake Louise

    alwaysinmountains1 :  Super cute idea!

    WRT the flavored lube; you might consider swapping out for Coconut oil. It works really well as lube and since it’s actual food, it doesn’t have the weird plasticy taste. It feels really nice as massage oil too, so it’s a bit more versatile. 

    You can get it in liquid form in most health food sections or high-end grocery stores.

    In all though, I think it’s a great way to start things off playfully! 

    Post # 13
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    Worker bee

    I second the coconut oil.  It works great!  And won’t give you a nasty yeast infection like some of the edible lube with sugar in it.  I recommend the coconut oil from Trader Joes.  A little goes a long way and the taste is subtle.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: Dorset, UK

    I think this is a great idea and it is not like you have to use everything all at once! Congratulations

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee

    I agree with juacvdo :  you might want to choose a gentler lube with less additives, especially since you’re sexually inexperienced. Yeast infections and irritation are common even between new partners let alone for first timers – your body isn’t used to having foreign things inside it and it’s a delicate area. I would wait until after the honeymoon to experiment with things like that so that you don’t wind up in pain on your honeymoon!

    Definitely get some lube, but try to avoid ones that have: alcohols, stimulants, warming agents, spermicides, flavourings, scents.

    More info:
    https://www.pelvicexercises.com.au/best-lubricant/

    Otherwise looks great!!!

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