Fiancé wedding gift idea-good or bad?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Is this a good wedding gift?
    Yeah! He’ll love it! : (57 votes)
    93 %
    Heck no. Calm down girl! : (4 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 16
    2603 posts
    Sugar bee

    I’ll go against PPs about the coconut oil. Oil will stain the sheets unlike water-based lubes. Also, I’m not sure whether you’ll be on BC or using condoms (or TTC from the honeymoon), but oil-based lubes cannot be used with condoms (they will break latex). I’m also not a huge fan of flavored lube, but I’d go with a regular all-natural water based one personally. 

    Post # 17
    2222 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    This sounds like a great gift! Men love intimacy gifts, and it shows a lot of trust in your partner. Have fun!

    Post # 18
    1391 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

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    wolfeyes :  true! I got a UTI on my honeymoon & it sucked! Unrelated to your OP but think about taking some cranberrry pills to prevent urinary tract infections.

    Post # 19
    1272 posts
    Bumble bee

    Maybe get some Canestan or equivalent thrush treatment too, just in case! Best if you can get the tablet and a cream for immediate relief. Unfortunately I can be prone to thrush when I go on holiday – not sure whether it’s the heat or the swimming. I recommend taking it with you rather than shopping for it if you’re going to a country where you don’t speak the language – I ended up swallowing a pessiary in Croatia once because I couldn’t read the instructions and the pharmacist misunderstood me. I thought it was a rather big tablet embarassed

    I think this is a great idea though, and I’m sure your Fiance will love it!

    Post # 20
    2726 posts
    Sugar bee

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    bee123456789 :  Ooh yes for sure. OP, they’re usually called either cranberry or d-mannose pills.

    (sorry, I realize  this is the most unsexy honeymoon advice ever, but the alternative is definitely even less sexy/comfortable – so better safe than sorry!)

    Post # 21
    301 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2018

    Woohhoo that’s so excited and such a cute gift! Jumping on the anti lube bandwagon though, not even because it tastes weird (who cares about that, it’s a novelty that’s fun to try and you can always take a sip of water to rid yourself of the taste), but as everyone has been saying if there are additives and stuff then it can irritate your vagina. One thing you could do is go to an adult shop and get a few different samples, you could always try a little bit on your own and see how you react and pick something that felt okay and didn’t bother your bits. If you’re interested in something like a flavored lube, you could always go for a flavored massage oil (I am pretty sure that I got one from Victoria’s Secret that tastes like vanilla). Either way, focus less on whether FH is going to like it (spoiler alert, he will) and more on ensuring that you’re not spending your honeymoon sitting on an ice pack

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