Fiancee has doubts about getting married.

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
13997 posts
Honey Beekeeper

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hachi :  I disagree with your advice. You were not married or engaged when this happened. And you never cheated. While many men would have moved on in your H’s place, I’m glad it worked out for you. But it was a very different set of circumstances. 

Post # 32
53 posts
Worker bee

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weddingmaven :  I was not aware of the cheating part. My apologies. Must have missed that post? I was mostly trying to underline having fear of being with one person. Not really about being engaged/dating – that part was irrelevant for me when I posted.

There are plenty of people who are afraid to get married and be with the same person forever. So I was trying to bring OP an exaple (maybe what her fiance is feeling IS real), that I was once one of those people who were scared. Anyway, I will go find that post that I missed so I have a better understanding of OP’s situation.


OP – I m very sorry for not realizing the cheating post. So sorry this happened and yeah, I would have dropped him in that case, no doubt in my mind.


ETA: spelling

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