- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Well I am far from Bridezilla but my fiancee is not doing – or more accurately – not COMPELETING anything I give him to do! Everything is on me yet he wants control and influence. Um… seriously? One example is when he asked me how many invitations had gone out and the answer was “none!” I was still trying to learn calligraphy and each invite took me 30 minutes to write and compile and he got worried none had gone out! (We are 80 days out.) Let’s not forget he hasn’t even given me a correct list of his invitees relationship status and wives names!!! He didn’t even know some were married and I found out on facebook.
Latest: the venue needs me to email a list of our selections for the tasting before they can schedule it. He sent back a few selections and still promised to finish his picks but hasn’t. Its been 2 or 3 days since this and yesterday I asked him, “should I just pick the rest if you’re too busy?”
him: no, no I’d like to
me: ok! then I’ll send it back to her to schedule us when I get it from you.
Well this is today, more than 24 hours later. We’ve had it long enough.
My greater fear is that he is going to turn me into an unhappy nagger.
For now I just don’t know if I should just respect that he wants to do it and sit on my @#$ until the venue has to remind us, pick them myself and schedule this shiz or remind him again (over my dead body!) by asking if I can expect them this week.
ARGH!!! IS IT NORMAL FOR BRIDES TO FEEL LIKE THE GROOMS ARE SABOTAGING STUFF?? I’m going nuts!