Fiancés been secretly ordering cialis

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

jenndubya :  What kind of things is he hiding from you? This is what I’d be worried about to be honest…

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

His ability to perform sexually is soooooo much less important than the lack of trust in your relationship.  I’m kind of amazed you’re interested in having sex with him at all, given you have no faith in him to be honest with you.

Post # 35
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

jenndubya :  Okay you two need to have a serious conversation like YESTERDAY! Who cares about the Cialis. You two don’t trust each other. That is a huge deal. 

Post # 37
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

jenndubya :  It doesn’t matter if he doesn’t understand why it’s a problem. It is a problem for you, the woman he is supposed to love. Cheating isn’t the only way to lose someone’s trust. How are you supposed to raise a child together without trust? 

Post # 38
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

jenndubya :  honestly, he sounds like a bit of a jerk. The reason you feel like it’s you is because… he told you it was you when he said he never had this problem with any other woman before. 

But a) I don’t believe he never had this problem before 

and 

b) what kind of partner tried to make their loved one feel undesired like that? 

You have far bigger problems than cialis. You need to stand up for yourself bee.

Post # 40
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

jenndubya :  But why do you think he’s being honest about this, when he has lied about so many other things? 

 Magically when you started dating, this became an issue for him, before you two had issues. That really makes sense to you? Why would he stay with you, have a child with you. 

I feel like I’m definitely missing part of the story since you are so sure he’s right. 

Post # 42
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Bumble bee

jenndubya :  

Honestly after reading you’re updates it doesn’t seem like you have much of a relationship here. 

Like pp said, you don’t trust each other. And you said cheating is his deal breaker but how are you sure he’s never cheated on you?

Seems like he is super shady & I wouldn’t want a man like that in my life, let alone in my bed.

Post # 44
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Call me jaded, but this thread has gone in ways I feel many do when the OP doesn’t hear what they want to hear.

“You should stop doing X.”

“But clearly this is about X!”

“It’s not about X, and here’s why.”

“Yeah but here is A, B & C I didn’t mention and are now totally relevant.”

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