Fiancés been secretly ordering cialis

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

On topic:

Your husband’s use of cialis privately has nothing to do with you negatively. Him hiding it is, in majority of cases, rooted in insecurity and embarrassment. He said he didn’t have the issue till you? Guess what? He more than likely did. He is just too insecure to say so. 

What he is experiencing is a medical condition whether it presents itself with vaginal penetration only or not. You can act extremely immature by making it about you or you can be understanding and seek out a doctor together. If you have concerns on the medications, consult a doctor together to get a professional opinion and plan. Most of all, don’t make him feel worse for it because the fact he secretly used it tells you how he already feels about it.

Side topic:

If he can’t respect your boundaries with his ex and your home, was into some shady stuff, and lies about other things..then you have other issues which can only be handled through marriage counseling. So, I suggest you look into that.

Post # 62
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490 posts
Helper bee

jenndubya :  Please don’t think that this has anything to do with you. He is suffering from a medical condition that a lot of men have. Has he been taking any medication that you know of besides the enhancement pills? There are a lot of medication where this is the side effect. My SO was given blood pressure pills about 4 years ago and had problems with erections. Sometimes he didn’t even get one and other times it would fall before we could finish. I thought that it was me, because he had never had this problem. I didn’t want to make him feel guilty but he could tell that it was affecting me. He invited me to his next doctors appointment and that’s when we found out that it was a side effect from his nlood pressure pills.

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