(Closed) Fiance's brother's girlfriend invited herself to my wedding!

posted 5 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 107
19 posts
  • Wedding: September 2018

If she’s not getting the hint, you need to be blunt and rip off the bandaid.  You should do so before she’s bought a ticket.  


Don’t “wait for it to come up in conversation”.  Call her and tell her in no uncertain terms that she is not invited.

Post # 108
252 posts
Helper bee

I’m planning to have a very small wedding too, so I know how it feels to only want to have the most important people there. If I were in your shoes, I’d definitely NOT allow her to come. You can explain to your fiance’s family that you want to share your special day with only the people that matter most and that you’ve also sacrificed other people who weren’t invited. I know it sounds harsh, but do you really want to look back at wedding photos 10 years from now and wonder why she was even there?

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